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I fucked up. And now I intend to fix it.
The most amazing man used to have a crush on me when we were teenagers. I loved him so much, in what I thought was a platonic way. Now, 20 years later, I see him on social media and we talk intermittently. He has literally become the man of my dream in soooo many respects. And yet, he still has that same happy, playful spirit that made him such a delight when we were teenagers.
He never directly confessed, but I found the farewell card he gave me when I left to go to school out of state. It’s hard to explain but with the eyes and ears of an adult, I can tell that he loved me. And thinking back, his actions were those of someone trying so hard to impress me. And it worked, in the long run.
I want to seduce him. I want him to be mine. I don’t care how long it takes but I have to make this work.
If you ever had a really strong crush on someone, what would be the very best way that person could come back into your life and kindle the romance you both were afraid to start. Any tips or thoughts are welcome.
thank you!
The most amazing man used to have a crush on me when we were teenagers. I loved him so much, in what I thought was a platonic way. Now, 20 years later, I see him on social media and we talk intermittently. He has literally become the man of my dream in soooo many respects. And yet, he still has that same happy, playful spirit that made him such a delight when we were teenagers.
He never directly confessed, but I found the farewell card he gave me when I left to go to school out of state. It’s hard to explain but with the eyes and ears of an adult, I can tell that he loved me. And thinking back, his actions were those of someone trying so hard to impress me. And it worked, in the long run.
I want to seduce him. I want him to be mine. I don’t care how long it takes but I have to make this work.
If you ever had a really strong crush on someone, what would be the very best way that person could come back into your life and kindle the romance you both were afraid to start. Any tips or thoughts are welcome.
thank you!
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What Girls & Guys Said
04Really? It won’t be weird? Or too much?
Not in my opinion
Thank you!
I did not get how much I felt for him until I looked back on my now middle age life and realized how many times I talked to people about his smile. It’s like sunshine. And I realized that even as a goody two shoes teen who never broke the rules, I let myself get scolded at work (gasp!) because I would not kick him out of the kitchen like the manager kept telling me to. I kept the farewell gift he gave me on my bedside table for years, literal years! When I reached out to him for help with a creative project during quarantine, his response was “I always have time for you, NAME.” My god it touched me so deeply. That’s when I got it. And he asked if I was moving back home, said I was still one of the gang, gave me little compliments about how empathetic I am. And he has hardly left my mind since. I can’t screw this up. But we aren’t the same people we were so I want to get to know who he is now. I loved him then and did not know it. There are just so many obstacles it would be easy for him to move on. But I want to show him how deeply I appreciate not only who he was but also who he has become.
Do you want to make sex with him or just love?
Both. I’ve absolutely lost my mind over him.
How old are you now?
41 years old
Seem like you are hot mature woman..
I’m doing alright. ☺️
Do you find yourself attractive and sexy?
Yeah. I’m happier with my looks now that I was when we were teens, and I was cute then. I’ve aged well and I’m pretty fit. More importantly, I am highly motivated and about to hit my sexual peak. He won’t even know what hit him. ;)
I know 40 years old is best age for woman, because their most horny age is that☺️also I like mature women too, because of that reason ☺️Do you have any boyfriend right now?