I noticed that whenever I ask a girl when I ask a woman, what she does on her day off, or in her free time. They will say nothing or not much. In my head, I am like really, you do absolutely nothing. So I will say something stupid like, "When you say nothing or not much, what does that consist of?" I notice I will then ask a lot of closed ended questions, because I have no idea what open ended questions to ask. Then not to mention in future encounters. Need help to figure out how to get women to open up and get a deeper connection.