I've been on two or three dates with a girl and she has no problem sharing with me when she thinks another guy is hot. I've seen this before with other people. Do girls do this to test a guy's insecurity? Last time we were talking and she was telling me how this one guy talking to her is "f**king crazy" (not in a good way). Then she mentioned that another guy was hot. I said to her that she seems to have no problem telling me what she thinks of other people which got me a smile so I jokingly asked her what she said about me behind my back. She told me she doesn't like telling guys anything that will inflate their egos.