Why won't guys just tell you if they like you or not?

[Anonymous]

the options you came up with are a non-sequitor but anyway neither guys nor girls flat out say it because then it ruins the fun and it could potentially get you rejected for example i could ask you why don't girls tell guys if they like them or not you have a crush on him why don't you tell him

is it
A you are open and honest or
B you aren't open and you lie

it's neither is it it's more like
C you are afraid of rejection and you don't want to ruin what you already have by telling him

[ArcOfJon]

guys are scared to take a risk (surprise) and put themselves out there to be hurt or vulnerable. Its very hard to step forward and say that, though i agree, if it was so easy to be straightforward many people would have flawless communication in relationships

[Whatsername569]

Honestly, based on experience, if a man likes you, he will come out and say it, or show you. However, putting your heart out on the line like that is terrifying, especially when there is a chance of rejection, maybe you should take the initiative and make the first move?

[Anonymous]

Same reasons you haven't told him. It is expected for the man to take initiative, but that doesn't mean they want to. Even if there is social pressure to. You are perpetuating gender roles, tsk tsk.

[StickStickity13]

Same reason girls are afraid to admit anything. You can't cry foul if you're doing the exact same thing.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he's nervous/awkard to do so, or maybe you're not as good friends as you'd hope to be

[PartyPoison1]

Because they dont want you as a gf, just to fuck you

[Ihav2fart]

@linkywinky I like you