A guy out of the blue told me off when he seemed interested hours before?

[Anonymous]

I'll admit I maybe came on a bit strong online but he blew it way out of proportion though, just because I could talk to him (we only had one conversation online) as apposed to being super nervous and anxious around him.

He said I'm going through something and didn't want to be apart of it, told me to not message him again and that my mental state is off. He said "he finally figure out who I really am" lol how can you figure out someone so deep without reeeeallly getting to know them? I apologize if I came on too strong and admitted I had a few insecurities (who doesn't?) and said thanks for telling me that.. I believe in criticism to be used as a learning tool on where to improve myself and that he is a jerk that has no sensitivity and was probably good nothing happened with him.

What I don't understand is that we've been flirting back and fourth a lot in class and he copies my body language A LOT (that's what gave me the confidence to message him online) and he was mirroring my body language that day before telling me off? Why did he do that? Does he think I'm crazy? I'm just a bit confused about all of this..

Updates:

+1 y

He said I had really big balls for messaging him too.. Wtf?

[CootiesInfection]

you don't have to spend too long with someone to know if they're
A.) a bitch
B.) neurotic
C.) obsessive
D.) self absorbed

the four biggest turnoffs don't require you to know their favorite color or their deepest darkest secrets. maybe work on your flaws instead of complaining about people who see them.

[Jack766]

I wish I could explain his behavior, but can't. He doesn't seem interested in you anymore. He must have misjudged you on his first impression? It doesn't mean you're crazy or bad, just you didn't turn out to be what he wants I guess.

[shadowlegend]

Does it really matter if you two aren't interested in each other? Don't get too obsessed with watching his behaviour and trying to figure it out.