the problem is that i rarely get approached by guys that i am interested into...
I must say that i am very picky.. have become picky, because of bad experiences...
the guys that aproach me are either too young for me, drunk, idiots or not my type.
The "normal" guys who seem nice and speak nicely with a girl never approach me. It's usually guys who try to pick me up and get upset when I don't act on their silly approaches..
I've been single for a while now, but I wonder if I am ever going to meet someone normal...
I am not ugly, and I get many compliments, even from a lot of girls.
How can I meet someoen? I am not very keen on internet dating to be honest.
Most Helpful Guy
If they are too young you are probably frequenting places that cater to a younger crowd, try different places that have more people age appropriate. Also, if you really like a guy and he isn't approaching you, go up to him and talk to him. If you are super uncomfortable asking a guy out then don't, just go up and talk like you are bored and need someone interesting to talk to, no pressure. After striking up a conversation most guys will typically make a move on you or move on.
Although, if he is really shy you may need to consider making the first move and actually asking him out/for his number if you want anything to happen.
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Most Helpful Girl
I know the feeling, I get way more unwanted attention than wanted. And usually if I get a guy talking I am interested in I find out he has a gf or is married. I think I intimidate guys though, cause if I am not smiling or laughing they are scared I may be a bitch. Or if they think I am out of their league (cause I tend to go for average to cute guys, I almost stay clear of overly handsome/hot guys).
Honestly, I have to spell it out for guys 'I like you... make a damn move' and then they say they know but had some cop out why they took so long or ended up having a gf/wife. So many taken guys lead me on till I hint about number exchange/getting together. I am almost scared to like a guy anymore, though I do have a crush ATM, but I only know where he works and it is not somewhere you can just show up or exchange numbers but cause I like him I suspect he has a gf, lol.
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