We got to February and this chap had left flowers on my car, with a necklace on there. The necklace had a little owl on it and I love owls so he had thought about it. When I asked if he wanted to be together after that he said no.
He went on holiday to Spain, he contacted me everyday. He told me he missed me and wanted to get together.
Eventually I agreed and we started a proper relationship. Every thing was running smoothly, we were looking fab. However everytime we disagree or argue my mates find him on dating websites, which he becomes a temporary user of.
We recently broke up, I am gutted to be honest. He told me he doesn't love me as he never ever will.
I feel like I have never really gotten over him from the first time we met. I'm in shape and I have a lot of male interest. I literally could not care. For some reason I love this man. I want my feelings to go, but I need to understand what the hell is going on here! My friends tell me to move on and I know I should but I probably never will. I feel like I'll just wait for him again and I shouldn't.
Most Helpful Guy
It's the old saying. " you want what you can't have." I bet if you really looked at the situation with a open mind you would see both sides... But sometimes that's very difficult to do.
He honestly and openly admitted that he doesn't love you, nor will he ever.. It will never be wright!
And quite frankly it sounds like her just doesn't want to loose a good looking fuck buddie!! Any one can remember things other people like.. That does not mean he has feelings for you!
Most Helpful Girl
These things are complicated.
Love, and intimacy, are completely different.
They are ideal, just don't always go hand in hand.
To be honest, he sounds conflicted more than anything.
Keep in light contact, and be available.
See if he comes back around.
If he doesn't, move along.
If he does, hold onto your own heart a little more carefully this time.
Pay attention to all the flags.