How to talk to a shy guy?

I have this crush on a guy but he is extremely shy and I dont know how to approach him... I'm also quite shy myself but I just need some advice please : 3

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  • Just approach him normally say hi, talk about something the two of you have in common. Its less about what you say and how comfortable you make him feel. As a shy person you know how stressful social situations can be to us (a good conversation starter), just try a little empathy, when you are talking to someone you don't like pressure being put on you to be a 4 star entertainer, and I'm sure you don't like it when people seem bored or uncomfortable if there is a long pause.

    Just make him feel like you enjoy spending time with him despite the fact his social skills may not be that good, that is the most important thing!

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  • I'm in the same situation and i didn't know what to do. But i was in a vulnerable situation and he started a conversation with me, complimented me, and was really sweet. So if you smile, be where he is, and don’t act tough, he’ll probably feel more comfortable and might initiate conversation.

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  • I'm quite shy myself, so, i'd say.. Just be yourself.. Not too overbearing, not too fast, but, let him know you like him.. then let him miss you, badabing - magic done, from there it's happiness!

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  • Talk to him for a while so you can open up to him and he'll be more likely to accept

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  • Simple, just invite him out for a drink and mention you like him.

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