So, I've been seeing this guy for about 4 weeks. We are both heavy people who are considering weight-loss surgery. Earlier today, he asked me if I ever thought about how when I lose the weight, that there would be more people to date. I said no and he said, "like when i have the surgery, I'll lose the weight and become more attractive and people will find me more attractive so there'd be more people to date." I told him that it made me feel bad and I felt like he'd felt he had settled for me and he wouldn't say anything else because he said that he'd dug himself in a hole. I haven't heard from him in a few hours. Not even a text saying that he's sorry. Is he trying to let me cool down before he texts me? Should he be sorry or did I overreact? Should I text him and tell him that I'm sorry?