He's having a party and did not invite me. Why? please help

We hung out all week everyday. For around 5 hours. On Facebook he put as his status "having a party wooot" And I put "with out me?" and he sent me a text saying "sorry"

i don't wanna ask him b.c it'd be annoying and clingy. Tho curious.I think he's into some chick idk. on Friday he kept trying to get me to stay , like saying "you should meet my friend you should stay longer." and I couldn't so I left.

I'm confused. why wouldn't you invite a chick to your party your friends with?


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  • Just friends? Like period... nothing else?

    I wouldn't have a problem with it unless she was bothering another one of my friends.

    When I have a party- I restrict who comes into the party. If PersonA doesn't get along with PersonB - then I won't invite one of them. Simply because I do not stand drama at my party. If people have problems, take it to the streets - I don't wanna hear it lol... I'm willing to help in situations, but I really don't want to take a fun night and focus it on how people don't get along.. etc etc..

    I don't mean to be rude, but that is truly .THE.ONLY. reason that I wouldn't invite one of my friends to a party.

    • Shoud I text him asking him why he didn't invite me? we are friends. I don't want to come off as clingy or nosy.

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    • I texted him creating casual conversation with him. it was going well, then I asked him "why didn't you invite me to ur party?" I'm just curious, I'm not mad or anything." and he hasn't responded for half a hour. :l

    • Dont ask him again- it will have an epic failure rate.

      Also, try to keep it just casual - being blunt like "why didn't you invite me" puts him in a corner where he may not want to tell you something.

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