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This is furiating to hear this! Who do you think you are to turn down a potentially great guy who you dont even know over something so frivilous and trivial. You dont even know his past or why he "didnt care" to make it presentable. If that was even on his mind at the time and not just the fact of being scared shitless by giving his number to a girl he liked! I personally used to take the time to make nice things for the girls i liked because i thought it showed effort and decency on my part that i cared. Welp I always got burned when I did those things and I will not do them again for any girl. Not worth it. Thats my reasoning, you can't even fathom his, so dont try. he's not going to "care" about you anyway if you two just met. Your supposed to give him a chance to care! Unbelievable!