Most Helpful Guy
Here's a thought, try asking him to join you in watching p*rn. As things get hot ask him if he'd be interested in trying that, etc? Another tactic that is used in the BDSM comunity is having a checklist, and going through it together, do you like... have you ever done it rate it on a scale from 1 to 6 if you haven't done it rate how much you like the idea of it. both of you answer the questions you'd be amazed how hot it can get. It might open him him up a little.
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Most Helpful Girl
I've only dated my boyfriend for a few months I have noticed him behaving distant. I texted him asking "Is something bothering you lately you seem distracted?". At first he didn't get what I was trying to say and asked if I needed more public displays of affection when we are out. I said no, it's more than that. He then started to think and said that he feels like we have been doing the same things everytime we go out, I guess he is getting bored. From then on we have started to discuss what are the other fun things to do together as a couple. Our relationship is stronger and he seems to make more effort when we are out, although we still find ourselves doing the same things. I suggest the best thing for you is to communicate with him; guys are different, they dont analyse situations like we do. If you don't tell him whats up then chances are that he won't know that he is acting disinterested. Also good to spice things up by teasing him sexually