Most Helpful Guy
We might be living the same life ha!
It can be ! Sure but why would independence be a quality of allure? It's admirable someone can achieve the same results as those who rely on others but why would it be an attractive quality? I do not know.
The lack of desperation for love , that cuts out a part in a person that attracts those who are equally desperate i think.
Most Helpful Girl
My boyfriend likes that i'm independent, he is too. So we don't heavily rely on being with each other every waking minute, of course at the beginning of a relationship we made each other a priority, but after we saw each other when it was better timing for us, instead of getting stressed if we didn't gt to, now we make the time for each other and agree on those days, it's nice because you get the chance to really miss them and you don't feel bad for living your own life. It's important to be independent single or in a relationship because being single doesn't define you nor a relationship should. It's an attractive quality I would say because what good is it if you have a clingy person whose attached at your hip?