I tried to get him to talk to me because I didn't understand why he was avoiding me if he never wanted to get into anything to begin with but he just wasn't having it. At this point, I'm thinking he was just using me as a time-filler until he could find someone else, or he was trying to hook-up or something and when he realized that wasn't going to happen - he bailed. The issue is that I half think that is what he was doing but then the other half of me doesn't think he would do that and doesn't get it at all. So I'm alternating between feeling really confused/upset that he would do something like that to me after knowing each other for so long and just feeling angry that he either really did use me, or that he knowingly let me feel used and didn't bother to explain things. If that makes sense. I'm just having a rough time dealing with this because there's no concrete reason for why it ended up like it did & he was someone I cared a lot about.
I guess it'll just take time and I'll never know for sure why he acted this way but I was wondering if someone else could give me their insight and/or opinions on why he acted this way?