Why ignore a guy that you had good contact with before? Why not talk it out? And why deny ignoring him? Is it something us guys do wrong? Should we confess in a better way? Or maybe not at all? Please inform me.
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Honestly, I have actually done that.
From what I think, it is because we don't want to hurt you so instead of telling you you've been frienzoned, we decided to break the companionship that we had.
I do that because I don't want to splash the bucket of ice water on the guy's face saying he isn't my cup of tea but instead letting it soak slowly.
We deny the fact that we are ignoring the guy because we never actually do that on purpose? It's more of a reflex thing. We think that guys will understand our complex mind, which is ridiculous. I, as a female, can't even understand my own sub-spesies and we are here thinking the opposite sex would.
I am not speaking for all the female population nor am I speaking for a group of females. It's more of from what I think I unconsiously do. I hope I don't create any misunderstanding :)
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