But this happens to me with nearly every guy who's ever admitted to liking me.
We'll be friends, and then they'll admit their feelings, and I'll tell them I don't feel the same and perhaps we can still be friends, they say okay. Give it a few weeks or months and they'll tell me again that they like me, and I tell them again that I don't feel the same. The cycle continues. And no, I'm not flirting with them. Regardless, an explicit NO! means NO! Why keep setting yourself up for rejection?
Here's an example.
Became friends with this guy about a year ago. Within a month he asked me out. I declined. We stayed friends. He kept flirting so I told him explicitly that we're always gonna be JUST friends. Give it a few months, he confesses his love for me. I tell him I don't feel the same and if he wants we can still be friends. He says okay. Few days later he asks if we can go on a date. I say no. Then he tries to get me chocolate for Valentine's day. Also tries to take me on another date. I say no.
WHY? it isn't just him! !! Its been several guys now.
Most Helpful Guy
I'm not one to put much effort into any one woman, but there are guys willing to beat their head against a wall because on rare occasions it works, sometimes because there are women like this: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1358338-i-rejected-my-crush-at-work-twice-oh-my
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Most Helpful Girl
They may think that you'll change your mind. Like this one friend asked me out when I was going out with his friend than after our breakup he made another move and he knew that I still had feelings for my ex at the time, what a real friend he was :/