I guess I got a little too attached to this one guy, and my mom's trying to explain to me that he doesn't care. He made his way, he got his degree, he's doing FINE, and even the little he does care, it will go away because he's focused on his life.
She said even the few times he talked, he was concerned with his focus/academics, and didn't really think of me much.
Well I agree with my mom this is EXACTLY what i used to think of him. But suddenly I noticed he's showing a change of behaviour towards me, and trying to get me to talk to him.
My logic says GET AWAY FROM ME YOU HORRIBLE PERSON, but a very small part of me is like hmm...
I can't help but hate him though, because he does have the big degree, and the life set out for him.. and I'm nowhere.
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If anything, you and your mother are the ones with the selfish mentality. How dare a guy focus on his own education and life goals instead of focusing solely on you, right?
The only reason why you feel so negatively towards him is solely out of jealousy. Instead of bitching about how he "neglected you" from focusing on bettering himself, why don't you do something about it? You say that you're "nowhere", so just get somewhere instead of hating on that guy for wanting to be successful.