Most Helpful Guy
He was probably just trying to make you laugh and feel better. I'm sure he cares, he just doesn't know how to show it very well. Nonetheless, you could tell him that's it's important to you and he should take it more seriously
Most Helpful Girl
Talk to him about it. My boyfriend is like this and it can really cause problems. Tell him he needs to take serious matters seriously and not everything in life is a joke, and it's not funny. I know how frustrating and annoying it can be.