Before the 3rd date, he texted me several times each day. But afterwards, texts became less and less. Also, before the 3rd date, he never checked in his online dating profile, but afterwards, he checked in every day.
He never asked me out again. It's been two weeks. But we keep flirting via texts. I mean before the 3rd date, we seldom flirted via texts, only normal chatting. But after that, we started flirting although he never asked me out again.
Only last week, when he got hungover in the morning, he called me up but I didn't take it. My guess was he wanted to stay at my place for some rest? I don't know. He's so weird, the only couple of times he called me was 3am or after his hangover.
I mean I am totally cool with it if he doesn't want to see me any more. But what's with the flirt and drunk call?
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you are his backup. he realized after the third date that for him it wasn't going anywhere but still likes you somewhat or thinks you're hot.
Wenn a guy only calls drunk or at impossible times, he just wants to hook up. If you're cool with that go ahead. If not, drop him and cut off contact.