I know girls do it, too, but I don't get why people play with someone's emotions.
Don't tell me that guys and girls can't be friend because I have seen lots of such lifelong friendships.
Most Helpful Guy
I´m sorry for you but this is reality , man and women can be friends!! You are too young to have seen lots of such "lifelong" friendships and I have seen too many such "lifelong" friendships falling apart and participated in 3 of them. In some ideal world we could be friends but not in this one. I did once what he did , just break all contact because I had feelings and I was a coward than , so I didn't tell her that , thought she didn't like me the way I liked her , so one day I just stopped contacting her and responding.
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Most Helpful Girl
99% of guys DO NOT want friendship with girls, their ego gets too butthurt lol they try to act all "manly" but when it comes to girls... POOF! you ain't getting any sense out of them... they show how they don't take rejection as good as us females and they are just softies just like us girls, they constantly try to set themselves apart from us out of fear of being made fun of by other guys... they fear showing their more feminine side.
Their response is cold behaviior like this... most guys aren't men but boys... a real man would show his softer side with you even around his friends not hide it... it's just a really fake way to act because they aren't being themselves... who cares about "reputation" but they seem to do too much... indeed it's a huge turn-off because girls actually like expressive guys who show their feelings, So he probably likes you and has for a long time but decided it's time to end the friendship, indeed it's a sad thing guys think they can't be friends with girls... but that's how most guys act sadly... their loss...