I've been with the same guy, exclusively for 3 years now - prior to that, well, 4-5 years of just, whatever we were, which was totally awesome.
Anyway, we live together away from our home city, we run a business together ( I am the boss, ) we have a dog & cat child - but that's it.
K now, really anyway...
There is love, without a doubt. But I mean, my BIGGEST issue, the make it or break it ISSUE - lack of common interests.
His interests - his car, spending money on his car, video games, spending money on video games, our dog, and well, sports of course ----- all of his interests I not only deal with, but some, incl. sports I mutually enjoy, so that's cool.
My interests - date nights, movies nights, romance in general, making him happy, my dog <3, fitness, health, grocery shopping, shopping in general, football ( I love me some football. ) ETC.
I'm wouldn't say my interests are too far fetch.
Kay so what am I even asking?
What the f, is this guys deal? No matter what I do, no matter how much I care, or at least front that I do - it just hasn't seemed to make a difference. I mean, dude, I spent $1+k to buy you a B16 - just to try and let you know I'm trying to see eye to eye with your interests... Im trrrrying to understand.
God, I don't even know what I'm asking? I'm so flustered, I'm flustered by this relationship and the fact no matter what he says he will never truly give a shit about my interests. I mean, just even PRETEND to care, suck it the fuck up - like I do when I have to do things I don't really enjoy with you.
Bottom line: I LOVE movies, I love theatres, I love the experience. In 3 years, he's taken me to 1. Worst part about it, I've had 2 TOTALLY FREE movie vouchers in my wallet for two years, about to expire.
Does that say enough about my situation?
The girl with the empty feeling heart who has no idea what she is even asking you.
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well you two have been together a considerably long time, so it may be true in your case that opposites do attract because in spite of all the shit that goes on, you two still remain together. but y'all also seem to have a lot of compatibility issues. nothing that can't be worked on of course, you're very young. but there is potential, just don't ever stop trying.