So i asked him if we were still getting coffee today (staurday) and he told or asked me " didn't we have that coffee yesterday?" and i couldn't help but feel rejected and a bit stupid. I mean it's cool that he doesn't want hang out, or doesn't have time, but i felt like he should have told me that we moved the plans.
Whats your view on this? was it my own fault, should i have had understood that he indirectly moved out plans? by the way this the first time i have dated. and im quite insecure.. so i feel like i messed up, and that he find me clingy or something... or that he didn't have that much fun and dont want so hang out anymore...
Most Helpful Guy
He should have been more clear. Not mentioning Saturday led you to believe those plans for Friday had nothing to do with the plans for Saturday. You could ask him to be more clear next time to avoid confusion or if he does it again ask him directly if your plans on such and such day are still on as well as today. He probably changed the plans because he found something he wanted to do more so instead of cancel he changed his plans around to fit both you and those other plans.
Most Helpful Girl
Don't worry or think too much about how he feels. You should focus on how you feel about him. Right now you feel disrespected and you should based upon his answer. I would think long and hard about whether this is the guy for you. Usually when a guy wants to date a girl he can't wait to see her. It feels a little to me like he is making you work into his schedule when it suits him. Never a great sign.
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