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I have no idea, but I can totally sympathise with what you're going through. I don't understand why it's so difficult to say "I'm not interested because of X, Y or, Z". To me, it's just about respecting the person enough to tell them straight up that you aren't interested. Guys have told me before that they're indirect to protect feelings, but, to me, it's actually more hurtful that way.