But that's okay because my side of the family is fairly wealthy and they wouldn't mind helping us out for a few years
Recently I found out that he took a second job, which he didn't tell me about (I thought he was cheating) to bring in extra cash. And I know that's sweet and all but he comes home in the middle of the night, tired and grumpy. It's just not worth it. Why not just take the money my parents offered?
He says he doesn't want to owe my dad anything, but we could always pay them back. Why won't he take.
I'm especially worried because he apparently talked to an army recruiter and is thinking of signing up. He said with his degree the pay is good, the benefits are good and we wouldn't have to worry about healthcare and he could always finish his phD later.
But I don't want him to join the army when there are other alternatives, why would he do that to himself?
by the way I'm not saying there's anything wrong with being a soldier, it's just not for him. It's not something he ever wanted to be