And for all the "I would never let my guy" or the "guys are pigs for being sexual" comments...First of all, I can imagine the hate that would be posted if a guy ever said "I would never let my girl..."And second, when girls hear the chip and dales are in town, no one has any trepidation talking about it, posting about it, "going with my girls to the chip and dales"! Or "gonna go watch magic mike with my girls" or "just saw 50 shades..."It appears, when we girls are horn dogs, it's an accepted societal practice and can be openly voiced and talked about. There is no shame put on us and our men have to just deal with it, but when guys want to go out with the guys for some entertainment... They are forced to lie about it and it is made into a massive bad thing, and when they get cause lying they are scorned for that as if it were justification for the wrong doing, but they wouldn't have lied if you allow them to be human like they allow you to be.
I'm 16 hahaha I'm just wondering why guys that are married do. But I don't get why a commited guy would want to, like whats the point?
Lol. I don't know. I'm not really saying its right or wrong, for me I just wouldn't feel disrespected by it necessarily. I also find the female form beautiful. As long as he was honest about it and wasn't opposed to me coming along if I so desired, I wouldn't worry too much about it. Before all the girls freak out on me hahah
3 votes down yikes! But you're more mature and probably confindent lol I just feel like it's a form of cheating!
Haha I guess for me its similar to watching p*rn . If he wants to look, fine. Just don't touch. I am very confident in myself so I'm not really threatened by a stripper or any other woman. If he's with me, I know he's mine and I know what I'm worth. So if he cheated it would be his loss.
Strict woman, lol. Just tell him to stay home with you then, and that only you can be his stripper if that's the case. There are women who go with their men though, and they play around too and enjoy it.
@Northeast106 I just don't wanna get cheated on. I've had both exes cheat on me.I really wouldn't feel comfortable going to a strip club. But I would if he really wanted to.
Sorry to hear that, I was cheated on too so don't feel bad.
Yeah but you dont find it disrespectful to your wife?
She wasn't really the jealous type, and we are still friends. She's remarried and moved out of state. I'm waiting to move south first, then I'll try to find a new sweetheart. It's probably wrong though, I don't ever really go, I can count on one hand how many times in my life I've gone.
I was just asking, I guess I'd say I'm jealous lol
exactly haha. whats the point?
Lol true. But I hear lots of strippers do more things for extra money. Aka prostitute.Either way, I agree with you again and we should get married if you truly feel this way haha jk.
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Haahah you think thats why? Don't they not get to touch them?
Not all strip clubs have the same rules.
I'm only 16 haha but I was just wondering. If you have kids and a wife, what's the point?
So would you say he's kinda cheating, like thats disrespetful
Not so far as cheating (as he isn't really doing anything). But, yes, he is obviously lusting after them.
would you go to a strip club if you were married?
I don't know. I have no plans on marriage any time in the near future because if rather do things like go to strip clubs, have casual sex , etc.
Right? What do guys get out of it?
To be honest young Lady I don't know the answer to that beyond just looking at the unattainable. I have more respect for my Lady than that , she deserves better of me than that
haha yeah I'm 16 I was just wondering. So you wouldn't think she's jealous if she said no?
Not sure what you mean , if she said no?
if she wouldn't allow you to go to the strip club
I have never been to a strip club before so that's a worry she has never had in the 18 years that we have been together.
I have no interest in going. I can attain far more by staying at home and would not have her upset at me. Even if she said she was ok with me going to a club with my friends I would choose to stay at home with her or take her to a movie. What is going to look at a topless stranger going to do for me besides cause me trouble at home ; no thanks
Wow! You're very smart!! Haha I don't think that benifits anyone tbh, and you're giving away your $ to someone you dont even know!
I agree , and to me it's pointless to go get excited about a woman that you can't touch anyway. But now on the flip side on that coin , there are women that go to clubs to see guys bare it all as well.
Very true! And I'd expect my husband to say he wouldn't want me to go either lol
I have never doubted my wife from the day we met. I love her far to much to disrespect her or want her to loose the respect she has for me.
Well when you say it like that I guess. I'm going to be hated for this, but when you get a lap dance you get a lot more physical contact. One night, I pretty much sucked on boobs the whole time and she was rubbing me through my pants, it feels great. In the end it is a very expensive tease. Still fun to do once in a while, but I don't really go to strip clubs.
@Northeast106 exactly. It's a waste of money just to suck on some titties and have a woman rub your cock.
True, but then again a lot of things people enjoy are a waste of money.
Most men who go to strip clubs are single, and I just think as long as men don't lie to women or cheat then it's not a big deal.
@Northeast106 if my man wants to go to one fine. I can't stop him. But he won't be fucking me when he gets home
Fair enough, well at least your point blank then lol.
And then lay in bed with her later, so weird
Yes not good at all i agree.. eeek
haha thanks for agreeing
You're welcome :)
Right? He would have me for a reason
Exactly. Like why get married if u just want to go to strip clubs?
I mean a form of cheating. You're lusting over another womans body
ooooor when your wife if your own personal stripper lol
But can she perform the bouncing titty moon waltz?
hell yeah! She can do it all
I didn't say all, just the ones who do
Because they are sick and the dont know what comitmen means sometimes its caused because his father wasn't faithful
Trust me I wouldn't. But I think marriages usually end because of sex haha