Should I be worried? I'm trying to just ignore it I know he's mine I know we'll get married soon. We haven't gotten engaged yet because his parents are going through divorce and he's trying to figure out his mom's situation but I know we will get engaged soon. I'm not sure if I should be worried though? Why does my boyfriend miss this girl so much? How come I didn't know they are friends? Maybe he didn't mention they were friends because they stopped talking? I thought they were just coworkers and who cares if you don't keep in touch with coworkers I lost touch with all my former colleagues it's something that just eventually happens.
What do you all think?
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That's kinda suspicious for a few reasons.
1. He didn't mention that they're friends, or that he's sad about whatever happened between them.
2. The fact that she wants nothing to do with him because of YOU. That seems like a very obvious sign that they are/were more than friends.
I would suggest that you be direct about it. Explain to your boyfriend that you saw the texts, and you are just curious about what happened and why he didn't mention it. Don't accuse him of anything, just calmly ask for an explanation.
You'll know what the truth is by his response. If he has a reasonable explanation, he'll just tell you. If something more is going on, he'll get defensive and mad, or he won't have an explanation at all. Just hear him out and then trust your gut. You'll know if he's lying.
Good luck. And make sure you ask him, because you don't want to marry a man who is lying to you or cheating on you. Get to the bottom of whatever it is! :)