anyway, this is what i don't understand. every once and a while when we're drinking, he'll start telling me he loves me, start holding my hand, or he'll even ask me to kiss him. from time to time he'll get jealous of other guys or get worried if i disappear for longer than normal. then you also factor in the sleepovers we've had, nothing happening... just cuddling. oh, and there was the one time we did actually hook up. i don't (or try not to) initiate anything. then you ask him about platonic friendships and he totally believes in them, saying he's scared to ruin a great friendship.
now, i'm wondering... does he REALLY believe we have a platonic friendship, does he have feelings for me but doesn't want to admit it, or is he just being a guy and keeping me around... just in case?
Most Helpful Guy
If you like him, just kiss him. If the girl initiates, it's so hot.
See where it goes. Decide first if you like him and if you do then go for it.
Could you help me out about this friend?
Most Helpful Girl
Even if he does have feelings for you, you need to think would you really want a guy who is willing to cheat on his girlfriend?
Honestly it sounds like he's just being a shit guy.
'Keeping all his options open' or is just shit at committing..
I don't like the sound of him lol!
I'd try and stay away!