Most Helpful Guy
Life gets busy, priorities shift, but I'm sure he wants to put you at the top of the list. He shouldn't ignore you for so long and expect you to stick around, that's not good for any relationship, but at the same time, maybe he has no control over it, work is devouring him, it happens. best thing you can do is whatever you can to support him through his rigorous schedules, he will notice and appreciate it, even if he doesn't express it to you. That's what love is, giving of yourself to the one you love because you can, and not expecting anything in return. Talk to him about it. tell him you feel pushed aside and want to know what you can do to help. if he doesn't want to try it, let the idea sink in for a couple of weeks, bring it up again. Persistence will let him know somethings up and that he could lose you if he doesn't do something about it. If he cares, he'll come around.
Most Helpful Girl
I know exactly what you're going through. It's hard to not let negative thoughts into your mind when you feel like there's emotional distance (on top of actual distance). But if it's just his work and stress that's causing it, you should understand that it is only temporary and needs to run his course and just try to be as supportive as you can.
You should let him know what you're feeling so it doesn't continue to drive you crazy and maybe he'll offer you a sense of security to know that everything is ok with your relationship. Just be careful how you approach it so it doesn't add to the stress. You're feelings are entirely valid though.
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