(out of characters)... that she didn't know why she did it or what she was thinking. That changed to "I was afraid of the big commitment coming once we met up in person". THAT changed to "we hadn't even technically met at that point". And that kind of morphed into "we weren't an official couple and people can't really date without meeting first".So I guess all the relationship behavior was just because she felt good because of it while it was happening, she got the extra dick because THAT also felt good at the time, and she eventually selfishly rationalized it away to herself that she wasn't really in the wrong.So yeah, I guess not-couples tell the other right away when they not-cheated, because that's what you do with your not-boyfriend you're close with.Fucking bullshit, I'm upset thinking about it now lol. But yeah, there it is
I can tell your upset you wrote a essay lmao. Well at least with time you would care less
Yeah, sorry about that. Not sure why I decided to go all out with the story lolBut yeah, time healed and I certainly won't put up with getting cheated on or even treated lowly again
Yeah it must burn. Well i have gotten a preview with it only with guys I've crush on for months and having gf without i knowing. It stings and burns, the heart ache and you just have a void in your chest
Yeah, it's that same feeling when you get that punch in the gut after finding out your crush is taken or headed that way. But on top of that, it's massive, massive confusion and frustration.Like, you ever get that type of frustration that just festers in your head and you want to punch something to get it out? It's like that, except there's nothing you can do about it. And for the confusion, you struggle to figure out why it happened and if you're going to just let it slide (which you don't want to do) or call it quits (which you don't want to do).And then of course the disgust of the inevitable imagery of your partner doing the dirty with someone else. That's the icing on this wonderful cake lol
Make sense :) i hope i never go through that but I do believe at one point everyone must go through it, nothing is perfect. And ofc it is possible f Ir someone to never chest but is really rare
Nah, I don't think everyone needs to go through it. The better way is for people to start being held accountable for what they do. That means getting dumped if they cheat, and accepting the backlash and criticism from people confronting their shitty behavior. Too many people escape responsibility for so many things out there, and not just cheating, that they don't feel any pressure about going out and being a fuck up.But that's just me. I'm about to make some loaded potatoes. Come on over to get some, and we'll discuss cheating lol
Wow I'm craving some mashed potatoes with fried salami marinated in sauce yummm
I'm really craving some chicken fettuccine right now :\
You're making me hungry :(
You made me remember getting cheated on. It's the least I could do ;)
Lol haha okay
That must suck :/ sometimes you're just should to blind yourself until it hits you tight in the face
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Ofc they can cheat lol. You cheated too? Did you cheat because you were suspecting she was? Or did you just let yourself go?
I never kissed, I just hold hands, but I did developed feelings for her, and she had feelings for me too. I didn't suspect anything, but she went to the UK for the whole summer, and I went to the same summer camp I went the previous 2 years. I already liked that girl from the previous summer (I didn't have a gf back then), and when I saw her again, all those feelings popped up again, so 2 month seeing the same girl every day, doing activities together, going to the beach... well, it's tough to not let the feelings keep growing and to control yourself.Like I said, I never kissed, but I would have if I could have. The farthest we went was to holding hands and hugging.
Ahhh i see :) okay
Well fuck that bitch :p
Yeah actually it was the best thing that ever happened to me, in a strange way i am stronger nowand i dont have that leech sucking the life out of meThanks for the support haha!
Wow really? Destroyed your self-steem? You're very good looking don't let anything bring you down
That sucks :(
Yup that was like 5 years ago things changed :D
Wow that must suck :/ hey at least you found out
No... i mean she told me as soon as she did it. But i was too ignorant to break up with her and i forgave her. Then she broke my heart 3 months later
That's just horrible
I'm sorry I'm just kidding please ignore.
Never had a girlfriend hahaha -_-