How can I tell if he wants to be more than friends?

Help! I'm really into a guy who is younger than I am. I'm a graduate student and he's an undergrad, but I really like spending time with him. I can't tell if he's not interested or if he's just insecure because of the age/status difference. He texts me all the time and tells me things like I brighten his day. He will invite me to group events, but he has never tried to spend alone time with me outside of the school pub. He displays the 'classic' signs of interest when we're together such as joking, flirting, sitting near me, staring at me, touching me when he talks to me, and even looking me up and down when I'm standing. I want to make a move on him, but I don't want him to reject me. Ugh! What should I do?


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  • well from my experience, those actions do depict some kind of interest in you. I don't think you should make a move on him and id suggest you leave stuff going as is until he decides to make the first move. Another thing, don't make it too obvious that you like him and make him a bit hungry to know about those emotions. That would attract a guy to u, you'll make him wonder. But,on the other hand that doesn't mean you should complicate things or act like a stuck up B**** (pardon my language).just be cool, be yourself, respect him, respectful yourself, nd be positive. be happy always around him, those vibes attract us. I think your on the right track though. he is currently in between the friendship road and the relationship road. MAINTAIN IT :) and good luck


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