No it was just a polite message saying hi, how was he doing and stuff. I mean it's common to not answer some of those, I've done it to friends, friends have done it to me, but I'm not that close to him so he'd know it would be rude. And plus he's a guy.
maybe he's trying to send a hint
That he's not interested? Why open it up at all? I wouldn't
he could've opened it out of habit instead of reading what he could before opening.
Okay. I still think it's rude of him to do that.
yeah its rude but there is an asshole and a bitch around every corner.
See from what I've seen of him, he's not an asshole. Somewhat aloof/distant from others, as in polite to all, but pally only with a few, but not an asshole.
it was an expression but okay he's not an asshole, he's just trying to let you off the easy way but obviously its also being rude.
Should I just let it go? I was thinking of blocking him, but then it will confirm his belief, so I might as well just let it go. Maybe he'll get even more confused as to why I don't care
I would honestly just let it go, its petty to make a big deal of. and you know something similar happened to me, I sent this girl a message, she fucking seen-zoned me but then like 2 weeks later I got a message from her apologizing like crazy saying she must have opened it and skimmed through everything and just lost it. so accidents do happen, maybe yours is the same, who knows. but for now just let it go, that's what I did.
I can't help but take it personally... kind of like, he doesn't respect me or something.
See, I've been rude, he's been really rude, then I stopped talking and he'd always give me these look as though he wants to talk to me but doesn't now what to say. So I reached out thinking now it's all in the past. Now I feel like maybe he didn't want to graduate from University with no grudges so he felt bad. He's likely wondering why I'm contacting him when the whole thing is over
trust me, just let it go. if he doesn't respect you then he doesn't respect you, there is nothing you can do about that, and it will just make things worse if you try to get him back because honestly all you gotta do is just say fuck it and forget about it. who is he? he shouldn't matter because he has no significant impact on your life.
he probably just doesn't get it. not on par with you.
Okay, I'll do as you say and let it go. What do you mean by on par out of curiosity? He's just in a different zone?
not on par like you said you wanted to end on good terms, no grudges so you sent him a message but he probably didn't see it that way, hence the ignore (if he indeed ignored intentionally)
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What if a guy did it to you, then is it insulting
I would simply assume he doesn't want to talk to me and move on.
Okay. It's not like i like him. But I am hurt
But he READ It. And he didn't send me a friend request. Who does that
Mmmmm that's kinds rude especially that he didn't send you a friend request, but do you know him very well?
Yeah I do.
Just hi/how are you stuff like that