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From my knowledge guys do not play these mind games with girls in general.Reasons it may seem the guy is hard to get:-He is not really interested about you and instead of saying "no" (that guys just can't do, because reasons) he hopes you will get the hint-You are off limit like a friend's sister, friend's ex, friend's mother... There are several unwritten rules about who a guy can date and who are off limits and that's why they could be unintentionally blind to notice you 'in that way'.-He is not ready for a new relationship if the issues of previous relationship are still haunting him-He thinks you are too good for him (rarely the case since guys tend to be optimistic)-And then the last one: He had no idea that you were flirting. We guys tend to be bad reading subtle hints and flirting. Sure some are good to pick those up but you have no idea how many times I have gone "oh my god she was flirting with me?" even years after the incident. Maybe it's just me who is bad reading flirting because I really rarely do it. It's just not in my nature to do it intentionally.
Un general no. There shoukd be a mid option in your poll.Moslty guys are pretty direct.But of course there are exceptions to everything.In that case they are shy, arrogant or insecure.Haha or maybe just lazy :p
Thanks for the mho^^And sry for the typo mistakes🙊
Hard to get like how?if a woman starts talking to a guy he will generally not play hard to get, but it may devaluate the woman in the eyes of that man.however, if a guy is popular with women, he may play 'hard to get' by ignoring a lot of women around him who are trying to get him to come and talk to them (and he would know it)
I don't know if I'd say i 'play hard to get' but when I'm talking to a girl, although i clearly express my interest, if she never texts first, i make myself less available in hopes that she will reach out more. When girls never initiate anything, it comes off as disinterest, and if she is too scared to text first once in a while, I'm not gonna waste my time on her.
May be some guys do that. It's possible. However I believe that most guys don't do that.
I've never played "hard to get". I have been obtuse, oblivious, and generally unaware of what's going on.
THE ONLY PEOPLE THAT PLAY HARD TO GET ARE CHILDISH AND/OR HAVE POOR DATING I. Q.
Some guys would, but its less common than with girls
Honestly, you could ask the same question about girls. Therefor it's individual, not by gender.
it depends on the guy, but taking your time is a good thing
not really but they may be too shy or embarrassed to express their feelings
Who the fuck are all these women voting yes? If that's what you think, don't complain about how guys are harassing you in the streets.
I don't play hard to get, I am hard to get. Guys like me know our self worth and we know that most women cannot match our greatness and so because we don't seem interested in a lot of women that likes us, we are deemed as guys that play hard to get.
How? If we're always the ones pursuing, how can we play hard to get?
Not at all ale.I sometimes make the move and break the ice.It depends if he s shy or arrogant or insecure...
@archiz but very few girls make the first move. I knew of girls that liked me and they never made the first move. Only one girl in my life has ever approached me.I may look like an arrogant son of a bitch then, cause no girl approaches xD
Maybe you are 😼😼With a resting bitch face too muhahha😬😒
@archiz I do have a resting bitch face, either that or a cocky one xD
Well not y'all can have an adorable face like mwahh ^^Haha kidding, from the ONLY pic you ve sent me you seem like nice cool fella :)
@archiz HahahaBut in that pic I was smiling, that adds friendly points xD
Yeah Archiz, he is playing hard to get, but I'm gonna get him one day ;)
@ChocoLada Hahaha I'm not playing hard to get XD
Yeah, you are, you sexy little boy ;)
@ChocoLada well he d be lucky to have you sweety 😊
@archiz Thanks, I hope so :D
i like how most of the girls said "yes". we are just blunt and very stupid at picking up signals.
Nope, I really don't think they do.
yes. but society refers to it as "playing it cool" when a guy does it.
In general, no. The immature guys, yeah.
No, not by any stretch of the imagination at all.
It's fun to sometimes yes.
yes some of them do
yes they do
Yes. Sometimes. It works.
I don't, no.
You bet I do.
No we don't.
who knows? chill.
O: I don't think so!
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