Can I be disappointed that I was supposed to have him over for sex but it didn't happen? I don't trust guys being have been hurt by many and haven't had sex in a year so I was looking forward to it. Would I be wrong when he does call that I don't answer the phone until when I want to? He could at least text and say he wasn't coming. Im not about to call or text him giving him the idea I need him. Also, how do you know if you gain feelings?