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I second this. The difference is that some girls aren't controlled by their libido alone but are looking right from the start for something more and thus will not have such a drive. There are plenty who do though.
Agreed - not every girl actually sleeps with the hot guys (who are often Bad Boys) - some are strongly relationship-driven and will pass on a guy even though she finds him very attractive. But such girls are the minority, at least in the US and most western cultures, with the majority going for the hot guys - even if only for casual sex - when they can.
Alpha fux/beta buxThey have their fun then settle for a provider later in life. Very important a man doesn't become a woman's backup plan because she will never respect him. And absent respect there is no desire.
@ArtDent The alpha/beta thing is an insecurity complex men come up with to make mountains out of molehills and explain things that aren't really happening. Not every girl is out there sleeping around and settling, in fact most aren't. Same with men, some are doing it but not all. People will find those they like and that like them, despite their past.
Is that a fact you've come into understanding in all your 19 years of experience? Because really it just sounds like you're parroting things women say
www.hookingupsmart.com/.../this study found that the more attractive the guy is, the more partners he has and for women the more attractive she is the LESS partners she has.
Because a high smv woman doesn't settle.
Nah, women settle when the bio clock is screaming at them
@ArtDent if that were true the majority of men would only be dating oldrr women
No way, men notoriously settle and undervalue themselves
@ArtDent 'notoriously' makes your answer a fallacy: argumentum ad populumimages.politico.com/.../wuc141013-605_605.jpg
Yes good point. Now use science and data to support your contention.
@ArtDent QA stated the existence of a single direction 80/20 ruleI'm just saying that if one exists, it goes in both directions.
One doesn't follow the other. Establish a connection.
Oh look! Data! www.hookingupsmart.com/.../
@ArtDent Logic tells me that 1. men and women are both human beings and 2. that a human being who's looking for a partner will aim at the best one (in his/her opinion). If you contend there's difference between men and women, I don't stop you from proving it.
You made the claim, you prove it.
Hey look! Data! www.hookingupsmart.com/.../
@ArtDent That link fails to prove why the Pareto Principle would apply differently for men and women.
You haven't demonstrated, AT ALL, that men and women approach dating and mating in the same way.Try again.
@ArtDent Both are humans. Both want what they consider the best. Asker , that site you quote and you (and a number of male virgins) contend that there's a difference between both. A difference playing in favor of women. The burden of proof is on you. Don't try to inverse it. That's fallacious.
Balony, you made an assertion. Prove it. Hold yourself to the same standard that you are trying to hold me and the asker to. I provided a take which had data to support a theory, that you didn't bother reading it is inconsequential to me.
@ArtDent I made the assertion that Asker's assertion is not correct.
@ArtDent but Asker escapes reversing the burden of proof fallacy by wording it "do you really believe?" You just seem to accept the veracity of that rule , which puts the burden of proof on you.
We BOTH have the burden to support our position, to this point it is only myself who has offered any supporting data, keep squirming.
@ArtDent I did not post that "80/20 rule putting men at a disadvantage". It was advanced without proof. What's advanced without proof can be dismissed without proof.
No, you posited that men and women approach dating similarly, without any supporting data.
So prove your assertion or lose.
@ArtDent you failed to prove why the so called "Pareto Principle" would apply differently for men and forwomen.
Listen dummy, your opinion or worldview isn't 'default reality' you should prove YOUR position just as anybody else should prove their position.Thus far you've offered NOTHING.
@ArtDent Insulting me?https://cdn.meme.am/instances/500x/66080292.jpgBye bye. Enjoy Christmas.
Not only that, but the 80% of the men who aren't considered desireable are still judged by the behaviours of the 20%When you see a gal say 'but guys are this way' here for instance, what they are really saying is 'the guys who are desirable are like this' the rest of us don't count.
Basically it's the belief that the men in the top percentage ( in this case top 20%) are being chased by and sleeping with most ( 80%) of the women.