I go to college with this guy and lately, I'm just so confused by his actions (or lack thereof). When I first transferred to my current university, he was one of the first people I met and he seemed to single me out to talk to: he was gorgeous, polite, and just overall seemed like a good guy. Yeah, I was interested at the time-I mean, I couldn't believe someone that good-looking would even remember my name. I passed it off as him being friendly to the new girl, I didn't want to read too much into it. A few months passed and I didn't see him. Come to find out, we actually live in the same apartment building! We ran into each other a couple of times and started talking again.. He was his usual friendly self. I stayed this summer to take classes and we have a class together. From the beginning, he chose to sit with me, but that's when things took a bit of a nosedive. Maybe it's seeing each other almost every day, but he suddenly turned a bit distant and closed off. He still always chooses to sit with me, but he almost never initiates a conversation. I don't mind being the initiator, but it takes two to have a conversation, and he doesn't do anything to further it. Still, he is always super nice when I do say something and does respond. He smiles at me a lot if our eyes happen to meet. He's recently started stretching his legs out in class so that they almost touch my chair and occasionally, he'll invade my space a bit. Still, sometimes he completely ignores me, but doesn't seem to like it when I talk to other guys. I really don't get this hot and cold attitude. Am I dealing with a player? I admit, I haven't really given him anything to indicate that I like him as more than a friend, but I honestly don't feel that I know him that well, and he isn't making it easy to want to open up. I don't know if I even should. I used to feel comfortable around him, but since his shift in attitude, it's making me feel more nervous around him. Does he even like me at all?