I saw this post on Instagram that said Guy's go after what they want If he's not going after you he doesn't want you.
no most people go for what the want not what they need so it's all about what you want is rather have what I need then what I want
Ok i get what you mean by you should go after what you need not what toy want but most people go after what they want when it comes to like dating because they don't care.
Shy guys just cannot find it in themselves to just go after what they want. He may be waiting for you to give him some indication that you like him before he goes for what he wants so he doesn't make a fool out of himself if you didn't like him.
@Hawn84 Aaah I get you
Flirt with him a little. Good luck.
@Hawn84 Thank you but I don't like anyone at the moment, I was just expanding my knowledge.
Oh okay. I hope it helped.
@Hawn84 It did.
Just be shy
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I guess so
but why do they have to be shy
They just don't want to creep the girl out. With the one high school crush I had (grade 9) I was too shy to approach her because I as worried that she'll snap at me if I said hi and say something like "what do u want". A lot of guys don't know how to approach a girl especially in grade 9.
That's what I was thinking.
No but let's say if he flirts with other girls in front of you is it absurd to think he likes you even though he does that.
I see what you are saying but he maybe flirting with the other girls to get your attention. Also if he's shy he'll find it easier to flirt with girls he's not interested in then you the girl he likes.
But do most guys actually do that.
Some do. Especially if he's young. Have you flirted with him?