Now, if he's really looking for a serious relationship.. I'd say, wait for the third date and try to come clean about both of your status. I'm sure one of you should be bringing up about it by then? But right now, can't you somehow tell anything from the way both of you talk after that first date? Like any signs that indicates that he's actually interested in being together?
Hey thanks for taking your time to reply! Personally I'm not comfortable with him still using the app because to me it comes across like he is using me as an option until someone "better" in his eyes comes along. I will take your advice and ask him what his objective is. To answer your question I can't tell if he does or doesn't have interest. During the date he was respectful, we chatted a lot and we had a spontaneous walk along the beach so I guess those are the good signs. The bad ones are that he replies late to my texts even when he's not busy. He's very short in the responses and is still using the online app.
Oh man, guys... I don't know what's with them and short replies. What type of guy is he though? Is he introverted? That could be one reason. Either that or he might just not be really interested in you in that way. So yes, do know his objective. While you haven't get the clear answer to that, just give it time and wait till your next date. See how it goes, whether he still continues to be casual about your date...
He comes across a little introverted I'm not too sure yet to be honest. I will give him a chance and go to dinner with him tomorrow. I will have to see if anything changes! Thankyou so much for your response I feel like I'm talking to a friend 😂😂
Hahaha no probs! Goodluck with your date tomorrow! 😂😊Hope that it turns out great for you and everything will be clear by then..👍🏼
Thank you I will tell tou tomorrow in case you'd like to know :)
Suree ! I'd like to know hehe goodluck !
Hey! Just updating you, I just got home from the date we had seafood and a drink. Although he was nice I don't think he's interested. He gave me the friend zone vibe and there was no kiss or anything! I'm okay, I will just get over it. Thanks for your advice :)
Oh man, but are you planning to remain as friends? Or are you totally cutting him off.. 😯
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Thanks for your response! You're right it's still early I just can't help but think that maybe he didn't really like me and that's why he's still looking
You're welcome! No, he must like you in order to want a second date ;) Don't worry.
Thanks again :)
Thank you if it gets to a relationship and he's still using it then I will cut him off
First try to discuss this. For me it tool tome for both of us using it even after we started living together. You two just net, so no big deal, just discuss first
They are not a couple yet.
But they aren't even a couple yet. They're both single, which means they are free to date as many people as they want. Instead of being concerned with getting "his full attention". They could make use of their time and meet others until there's a connection.
Yeah the thing is I disagree with that philosophy. You can date as many people as you want, but if youve both got 6 other dates lined up that week, what is the point, you're never gonna get anywhere bc you'll always be concerned about the next date. If theyre gonna "make use of your time" that way, then it seems like they aren't really concerned about connecting with someone, but theyre more concerned with just meeting/dating as many people as possible
Thanks, I will keep that in mind
Its a relationship when they agree upon being an exclusive couple
It's not official until they mutually agree that they want to make it official.
Exactly. Let us know if you're on date 4 and he's still on it.
Thanks that's how I feel about it too. If he was truly interested he wouldn't be looking for someone else
lol you've never been with a girl. lol
Hey dude... in my country girl wants me... as am a X-Celebrity as i released my album... but now I had already quit that profession... so u r wrong that i have never been with a girl... hope u got it dude 😎
Lie to yourself, I don't care.
ok then stop talking about me and thinking for me...
Shut up kid. I own you.
And if I were to think for you, trust me... you would be WAAAAAAAAAAY, WAAAAAAAAAAAY more intelligent. FACTS.
www.google.com/searchSince you don't know what one looks like in real life.Boy did you pick the wrong bone to pick, little guy.
Aww talking to you has made me grammatically stupid. :(21 year old punk thinks he knows something. You don't know jack little kid. You're still a "kid". Sit down, shut your mouth... now... and eat your baby food.
sshhhh... m studying so please don't disturb me.
Might as well get on your knees to pass, you know all about that.
I'm done eating you up and making you look like a tool, you're too easy. I feel sorry for you.
now we r Frnd?
Are you say even after meeting someone only one tonlyyou should get off of all dating sites and apps?
dating is a bit like interviewing only much more relaxed
If he did that, she'd be saying why did he delete it? We're not even a couple yet, is he clingy and needy? Blah blah.
Sadly you have a point.
As harsh as it sounds on the face, I agree. I've had only less than a handful stick around.
@Botchie No, it's true. Women are super flaky. They don't have a clue what they want and they come up with stupid thoughts that just cause problems... kinda like this question.
@tyrantfuryre I didn't disagree haha. All I did was say that it's harsh in addition to being true, at least in my experience.
@clampfab101 why should should he stop using it when they are not officially a couple yet?
@MysteriousDarkness He might become tempted to cheat.