Most Helpful Guy
When you are starting a relationship or plan on... normally, guys and girls share... that is a way of connecting and generating reciprocity, if you like the guy and have a good feeling about him, give him some time, not too much, and then charge again with questions, if it angers him... I would pretty much say push him into the "acquaintance" zone, not even friend, since he is not willing to share anything... thus no connection and will have a tendency to lopsidedness that might become troubling later, you know, "he used me and abused me" and you will end-up feeling empty because it was you that did all the footwork. But if he starts to open, then do not give in too fast, you might be facing a clinger, go with the flow, if he holds he is a keeper, if not you might have found a good friend. Either way, just be mindful and vigilant, we are around 500 million people in the whole North American Continent and as there are pretty weird people, there are also pretty good catches. ;D0
Most Helpful Girl
Could be a number of reasons.
1) His intentions aren't as serious as yours. May want to sound interested to get one thing but isn't going to waste his time letting you know anything about him because of a lasting impression he doesn't want to leave on you or around you.
2) He may want to make sure that he can trust you as a person and get to know you before he lets you in on his personal life. Being aware of his surroundings kind of thing but has true and serious intentions with you enough to take time out of his day to find out who you are.
3) May feel you dont care to listen because maybe you dont care to ask him. He may see you are talking about yourself and answering his questions but won't really engage back by asking him questions so whats the point in speaking on my personal life when you don't seem all that interested in hearing about it.0