- Keep askingVote A
- Stop worryingVote B
- Something elseVote C
How damn irritating do you find this?
What Guys Said 16
If they say nothing is wrong I won't push the issue beyond a "Really? You sure about that?" If they're mad at me and I did something wrong I want to make it right with them. If they are dealing with something else and I'm somehow able to help, I want to help however I can... I can't do that if I don't know what's going on. I don't find it irritating because I get the feeling. I try to avoid doing it personally but I get why they do it. Sometimes it's just a matter of they think you did something wrong and they feel like you ought to realize your mistake on your own. My girlfriend used to do that, and it took me assuring her that I wanted to makeup for whatever I'd done to offend her, and admitting that I can be an idiot and needed her to tell me what was wrong in order to get her out of it. It was just kind of her natural response and I get that it's a lot of people's natural response... I can either get irritated by it, or learn how to deal with it, and perhaps, in the long run I can help break them out of the habit... and quite frankly, my getting irritated isn't going to help anyone xD1
There are a few factors that play into this. My good friends: Keep asking. My partner (assuming everything had been going well with us): Keep asking. but if I know what they are upset about and they want me to keep asking, no deal.1
If it is a woman I would ask her and if she said nothing I would talk to her and make her put her guard down. When a woman is pissed they need someone to talk, no matter what they may say, help them, give them advice.1
I always ask once and then I go ghost for the rest of the night. usually they pull the lodged stick out of their ass and apologize.1
No, I understand and i back the fuck off, if they want to tell me something, they will.2
I ask 1 last time explaining if you don't want to talk about it dont exspect me to talk about it with you for at least 3days to a week1
That person probably hurting inside. Maybe there is a lot of stress they are dealing with.
After I moved and changed professions from less stress free environment to a more labor intense environment in a mill working in 110 degree valley heat working managers (high manager turn-over) under the gun themselves to produce,, constantly surrounded by negative energy working crazy hours,, the only thing I wanted to do was not bring that negativity home..
Maybe the person you are referring is in a negative work environment working in an extreme heat..1
I let them wallow until they come to me and are ready to talk...1
nope let them be.
if they do not want to talk about it1
Depends on who it is and how much you end up dealing with them in this mood.1
Leave them be, with a "im sorry you're upset, I'm here if you wanna talk about it".1
It all depends on who is this person to you.1
I would change the subject1
What Girls Said 6
I ask, after they mumble I'll ask one more time then just say I'm there if they want to talk.
I get that it's not always easy to open up when we have problems but I'm not going to force it1
I basically tell them tell me or _____.
If they don't tell me nothing can proceed because I'm not dealing with their pissy attitude.1
Tell them to please stop lying, and just say that they don't want to talk about it.1
Then I just leave them the heck alone and go on.1
i won't keep asking..1
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