I've been seeing this guy for some time now but he hasn't spoke to me in a few weeks which is very unusual. The last time we spoke we weren't on the best of terms. Should I reach out or let things go? I can't seem to shake this guy. I really want to fight for it but my pride keeps telling me if he's showing a lack of interest then forget about him. I miss him but I feel him drifting away. Im skeptical about reaching out.. I don't want to cause myself any hurt. Yes we've gone on dates and have been intimate if that helps. What do u think?
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I know how I am and I would just leave him be and move on.
For you... if you really like the guy and things didn't end well, I would at least reach out to see if you can make things right. Pride may get in the way but at least you can say that you tried. If he comes around then that's great. If he doesn't... it will sting for a while, but at least you can put it to rest knowing you gave it shot. It's better to try and fail than not try and wonder what if. I truly think it would eat you up and hurt more to always wonder than try and not succeed. Just my thoughts.1