Like i always here guys when they see a pretty girl they’ll whisper to their friends “bro she’s so hot” or “she’s cute” and then they’ll all giggle together lol but why don’t they try to ask these girls out?
Most Helpful Guy
Well for starters shy guys won't tell their friends about their interest in terms of a girl, most of them, to be precise based on my experience it's because firstly I don't have high self-esteem, and I compare myself to the guys she usually hangs out with and make up my mind that I'm not even on their level, she's too pretty to even notice or have an interest in me, and I might even make a joke out of myself if I too her and she would tell her friends and everything would come crashing down after the rejection and then it becomes a cycle, and after that we remain song0
Most Helpful Girl
I’ve asked several guys out and tbh it can be hard the first few times. You’re always scared the person is gonna laugh in your face and text about you in the friend group chat. Girls can be brutal so shy guys would rather not deal with the drama unless they know for certain1