I've tried football, video games, hobbies, what they want out of life, childhood. It's like pulling teeth to talk except about sex. Then he suddenly has a whole lot to say and is interested.
Most Helpful Guy
Its not, I talk passionately about most things (well except sports, never been a fan, I understand playing them but not watching them). I would be more likely to bet that it has to do with either the men your talking to or how you approach the topic. I can go on and on about a lot of things but if I'm for instance discussing the mind blowing realization that their is a high probability that their is another version of us some where else in the universe (statistically not far fetched in an infinite universe) and I see the person is not able to contribute or their eyes are glossing over then I'm simply not going to talk about it because to me its a sign they are uninterested. So this could be your problem, that is if you are not showing that your knowledgeable about the topic or engaged in it then most people stop talking about it because they don't want to bore you. Or it could be that your talking to guys who are not interested in anything other then sex, or at least are interested in nothing but sex from you. So what guys do you talk to?1
Most Helpful Girl
I know the feeling, sometimes it's like talking to a wall but not all guys are like that. I think it's probably just because they either don't think they're other interests are important enough or something, or they're worried that they're gonna be judged for liking something but with sex, most people like the same things so it's easier to talk about without feeling judged too much0