I've been seeing this guy for like 5 months we both come out of quite serious and long relationships (around 6 years) so we don't want to rush getting into a relationship. We still both talk to our exes as friends. Before I left to go on holiday he told me he loves me and that he'll wait for me and that he's going to miss me etc
I went on holiday with a couple of guys & girls (he kept making little digs about me going away with guys) and while I was away I made a joke about having sex with one of the guys (we alwayssss make jokes like this with each other) but I think he felt about insecure and jealous about it.
Anyway when I got back he told me that he slept with his ex (a day after I made that joke)
I haven't really spoken to him since and I don't really know how to react. Obviously he's single so he can do what he wants but at the same time he told me so much amazing things before I left.
It's really messed with my head. I'm on here just to vent right now but any advice would be appreciated x
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He sounds like he has the world's most pathetically fragile ego, and weak willpower to boot. You made a JOKE, a type of joke you maintain as a common one between you too, but he probably saw this joke as an excuse to fuck other people because then he can "blame it on you".
No matter what he felt, any man or woman who cheats and then blames it on their partner is absolutely worthless. If their partner was SUCH a problem they should have left to begin with, not used them as a safety net.
Long story short he is absolutely in the wrong and you dodged a bullet. If someone doesn't trust you enough to let you go on vacation without fucking other people then they shouldn't be with you at all.1