He doesn't do it all the time or to an extreme. We are 22/23. We recently started being exclusive and get along super well. I wear size C bra cups, since during my period they fill to a C but otherwise they're a little tight in a B. Last night we were intimate and he was joking around that my boobs were AAA and I had no boobs. I've also recently lost weight so my boobs and butt are smaller. But I have always been known to have a really great butt, so I don't care about small boobs because my butt is round and big thanks to my genes. But he even was commenting on my butt sayjng it wasn't that big or he didn't notice it was anything special. We work together and work with customers and I am hit on regularly by customers and coworkers, I know I'm attractive but it's like he tries to make me feel like I'm not. Or he makes comments about other female coworkers, how the guys at work always look and comment about them and their bodies, etc. Or he'll purposely, he admitted this, said he will bring up girl coworkers around me to make me jealous because he enjoys it since it strikes a nerve with me. But then he'll turn around and shower me with compliments or say I'm the only one outside of work he'd find attractive and the others aren't, etc. Why does he do this?
Most Helpful Guy
It sounds to me like he's insecure (i. e., he's not sure he's good enough for you, and you may leave him), and so, whether he even realizes he's doing it, he's trying to make YOU insecure so that he can feel more secure himself. Of course, he's being an idiot, but in the moment, it seems to him the thing to do to make him feel better.2
Most Helpful Girl
I don't know your ban size so I can't say if you are small or not. What I can say is that your man should appreciate you and shouldn't be making those types of comments and treating you that way. Maybe next time you should look at his dick with a sad face and be like, "If only it were a bit bigger, I might enjoy it."2