I don't know what advice I can give him.
Most Helpful Guy
No none I my parents have control over my finances since I turned 18
Most Helpful Girl
Personally no; but I’m not too bad with money.
The thing is, not everyone is naturally good at saving or managing their income. If they need help, and it sounds like this guy does, then this may be the best way for him to work that out.
My husband was terrible with money when we first started dating. Every pay he’d have to borrow from Peter to pay Paul and he could never get ahead. It took us sitting down together every single pay and me keeping him to his budget to feel accountable and over time he’s learned the best way for him to do it and he’s amazing now. He’s a money squirrel.
Point is, I don’t think it’s anyone else’s business to say what he’s doing is wrong if he feels it’s going to help him get ahead