We moved out together this year and I'm finding that there's a lot I didn't really come across in him before now. Most evenings, it's a case of get home, wash up, cook and go to bed; at least, that's my routine. He comes in from work most days, washes up and then sits on his games console until at least 10:30pm - sometimes until midnight - before then going and showering.. oh, and complains the next day how tired he is. On the nights we don't have work the next day, we'll get a take-away in and then sit watching tv. The moment he gets bored, his face shows it or he goes '... ergh, I'd rather be playing PS4'. At this point, I get up and go to bed. Why is he being so rude and selfish? Does he not want to spend time watching rubbish tv with me in an evening of the week? Also, I have to add; he only has 1 PS4 controller so there's absolutely nothing I can do whilst he sits there gaming all evening other than go and do something else. I honestly think it's so rude and selfish. Advice?