Okay so this guy was talking to a girl out of state for over a year and has talked to me a few months. The girl came into town for a weekend and he kept telling me he was torn between her and I. A week before she came out he was saying he would still want to see me after she leaves and that I could text him after she left. Also he said that if he did pick her or whatever he would let me know because he respects me. He wouldn’t ghost me. I did text him and haven’t heard from him. I also sent him a snapchat that I also sent other people and he still hasn’t opened that either. Does he need time to decide or what?