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When you say 8-9... You probably mean that it's how you perceive him. But women's perception of men is to under-rate men (women rate 80% of men as being 4 and under). That means he really is a 10.In which case you must consider the following: 80% of women chase him and he has easy access to hundreds of girls, many of whom will go out of their way (more sexually open to crazy things, for instance) to get him. That means the competition to get him is very tough and he will probably use his advantage to be very promiscuous.If you're a 5, good luck to you. He might agree to f*** you but probably nothing more.
Already 2 thumbs down from the ladies? What part of reality begets those thumbs down? I'm sorry you don't like it (not really sorry in fact) but your likes or dislikes don't change reality.
The reason we doubt that an attractive guy can fall for an average girl, is because of the options he have, and the prettiest girls that fall for him. But let take the exemple of bob dylan, he is not a model, but you can see that with his fame and money, he was able to fuck a lot of girls wich were ten more prettier than his wife. So yes, an attractive can fall for an average girl, despite all the babes that have fallen for him
Looks are subjective. Girls tend to be much harder on themselves. Also, many guys have a "type" of woman that they like, so he may view you as his type or not his type. The worst case scenario would be he's self conscious and sees himself as a 5 and her as an 8 or 9 and he feels like he'd never get her so why even try. Both dying to make a move but neither having the courage. My advice is to go up to him! Men don't take hints very well so just go up to him and talk to him and see if he'd like to go to starbucks or something. Doesn't have to be much, but sometimes you need to take the first step.
Yes but after getting to know her, and quite well too. Id also expect it to have a higher chance of happening the older he is, a 20 year old would be far less prone to doing so than lets say 35-40. If he is very aware of it id also expect him to cheat every now and then, note in most cases but not all ofc. Bottom line is the chance of it happening is more or less proportional to his genuine kindness not the kindness some use to get what they want because kind people are more empathic and therefore personality weighs in more. Im also sorry to say that some (in cases where it did happened) would be guys that do it because they know it means more take and less give, these are the same type of guys as the mentioned cheaters
I believe so. Love comes from all directions and in different ways. Somebody’s friend may become a lover. Maybe somebody that you didn’t get along with before. Beauty runs through all of us and is seen by the arch of us differently. If things go just right even a fence post can find love.
Yeah I think that the character, her/his manners and general her attitude towards also play a huge role. If he's confident as a 5 and is stronger in other aspects, he can get a 10 and if she's confident as a 5 and is stronger in other aspects she can get a 10, too.
Will the sexy girl fall for the average guy?You answer your own questions...
It's possible, everyone has different tastes. Like how some guys like skinny/curvy girls, one of my friends like fat girls. And he was specific in that he meant overweight/obese girls because it's "more to love." So yes, yes a guy can.
Everyone's views of beauty is different, what one person thinks is a 1, or a 10, another may not agree with at all. So yes it's possible. And especially if it's YOU that thinks you're a 5 say. People always see themselves differently than others do (usually think you're worse than you are).
Yes. It's not common, but it happens. I'm muscular and lean and considered handsome by girls, and I've been attracted to some chubby girls who had a hard time believing I was serious about wanting them.
What’s with the numbers? I know what they mean... but seriously? In other topics everyone is talking about “deeper than skin” and here you all are putting numbers on peoples appearance? It’s the package, not the paper alone.
Yes, considering looks are subjective so what one girl thinks is an 8/9 another girl may think he's a solid 10 and another girl thinks he's a 6 at best. Same thing with the "5" girl. She may be a 5 in her own head and maybe in others but to the guy who she perceives to be an 8/9 . . . in his mind she's a 10 and he's a 6 at best. So, the girl thinks he's out of her league and he thinks she's out of his league.
Absolutely, it usually works that way anyways. When a guy hot or not goes LTR he will go for average.
Possible, but unlikely. There are plenty of 8+ women with great personalities so there really isn't any reason to go for a 5. But i won't say its impossible
Yea I think its possibly. When it comes to actually falling for someone it's about their personality.. but these kinds of relationships always start as friendships
हाँ जी। बिल्कुल संभव है। क्योंकि प्यार होने के बाद रूप मायने नहीं रखते? लेकिन फिजिकल रिलेशन बनाने से पहले लड़की को सौ दफे सोच लेना चाहिए कि कहीं लड़का सिर्फ इसी फायदे के लिए तो आपके पास नहीं आया है। अगर वो खुशी से आपको अपने दोस्तों, अपने घर वालों से मिलवाता है तो हाँ भरोसा किया जा सकता है।
What you call average may be extraordinary to him. You never know.
Yes, if she's a good woman. Looks aside, it is very hard to find a good woman these days. Plenty of good looking guys want much more than just a pretty face. They want a good heart, good character and a good attitude toward men. That is hard to find in a woman now.
100% yes, completely possible, as it is the other way round.
Yeah, I believe so. It may possibly depend on what a person considers a 8-9 and a 5. But yeah, it's definitely possible.
Looks aren't everything, so yea it's possible besides everyone has a different perspective of beauty.
The average ones are the sleepers, talented, kinky, and intelligent. Gotta watch out for the "average ones" ;)
Of course it is. Looks are not everything. A good looking bitch is very unattractive when it come to dating.
We are harder on ourselves than others at times. So I believe you probably think less highly of yourself than he does. I know for a fact it can happen because attraction goes beyond just looks.
If either of you are basing your relationship off looks and sex life, alone... Be prepared for it to not last long. Bc you both are already waving the red flag that says "I'll cheat on you if things get ugly" #HONESTY
Looks doesn't matter when we fall in love. Beauty attracts a sex partner not a long term one
Of course!! You can be perfect for him not for the society
There can be 2 reasons:-he has a heart other than a penis-in his opinion she is a 10
10s don’t actually exist. But yes it is possible for a person to be attracted to someone less attractive than themselves. Doesn’t happen often, but it happens.
Guys don't really know how attractive they are physically, so unless a girl he trusts told him he is a 9, he wouldn't know. Anyway, that's my experience.
Yes it's possible for this to happen, love is beauty skin deep.
Its not always the looks that boys tend to go for (although it may seem like it), a high percentage go for personality x
Yes, sure. I mean, there are more girls searching for really hot guys, than guys looking for really hot girls, in my opinion...
Well I was told love comes from the heart not from the looks if she has a loving heart kind generous honest I'd say yes
Absolutely , in my opinion looks don't matter nearly as much as personality does. As long as the 10 liked the 5 as a person and enjoyed their company I believe it would be completely feasible for the guy to fall for the girl.
It's not always about the exterior but about the interior. He might of just fallen in love with her personality. Guys do that on occasion.
Well id hope so but i guess it depends on the individual
What is attractive and what is average is subjective so no
True love had no boundaries so anything is possible I think
Yeah definitely possible. Besides, ratings are relevant
Yes anything is possible it's what's on the inside that counts
You know this is BS. The inside matters if the guy is hot. If a guy is avergage, he could be a saint or a criminal, it's all the same
Should we mass execute those males redistribute their possessions
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Lol average really don't have a fucking chance. I thought the entire 80/20 was false but the time I spend on here the more it seems true
Absolutely, it depends on what you find handsome though. There is no one universally attractive trait.
Of course, it's possible. Just look at all couples in the streets and malls
Happens all time. Specifically when he is of lesser income. 8'$/9'$/10'$ type of females usually will not tolerate him. At least where I'm from.
Average looks, yes. If she has an awesome personality.
I thought most guys go for someone they actually get along with and not judge them by their looks
That doesn’t happen, ever
Well that sucks.
Is that coming From experience?
No. I’m confident in my looks. But some of my friends aren’t good looking yet they’re amazing people. No matter what, they aren’t able to get a date
I see your point. I can’t judge since I’m not good looking but I can make up for that
Why not? "Average girls" are actually the keeper ones.
Well he is cute but can u post a photo of u if u can
yes but very unlikely he has other girls on the sideso you would be a list of just one of many
Not likely.But an average gal can find an average guy she feels really attracted to.
Its not about looks, its about attitude, confidence.
Its possible and its normal... its not all about appearance all the time..
would you, a 5, go for a 2?
I'm open to possibility
then so can a guy.
Yea. That’s basically what being a 5 means. It means possibility.
Yes it happens a lot more than you’d think
Certainly depends on the guy's preferences.
it possible... I guess
I don't know you tell mewink wink
Yes he may see something in you that you don't
Yes of course love is blind
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