I work with a guy. We’re just coworkers, nothing more and neither want anything more. We’re both in serious relationships. We talk a lot and flirt here and there but only because we both have a sense of humor and it makes the work day easier. Our line of work is slow with very long days. I don’t see anything wrong with alittle harmless flirting. He’s someone who you can easily trust and talk to and someone who you can feel comfortable around but when he’s around other men, I get ignored. Why do men do this? And why can’t I participate in the conversations they have if it’s not work related? Because I’m a female?