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Personally, it might scare me away. It would really depend on why she's a virgin. If it just didn't work out, that's fine, I can relate. Wanting to save it for the right person may be tough for me. What if I wait for her for however long she feels she needs, and then we finally have sex and it's a letdown? She probably built it up in her head as some transcendent thing, and while I wouldn't say I'm a bad lover, I don't know if I can meet that expectation.I'm not saying it's wrong, but that's close to the internal dialogue that would be going on in my head.
No. It's more acceptable for you girls, not the same for us guys, we're somehow expected to be sex gods able to please her just automatically and dominate her right from the start but damnit, how are we supposed to know?I was a virgin before my girlfriend, I only lost it recently at 20 before my bday I frankly don't think kids at 14 and 15 and that should be having sex anyway (which is when most apparently do). I never did anything in high school cause I wanted to wait to find the girl I love, glad I did.
I have stopped trying to please women in bed and started trying to please myself in bed. It seems to work much better. Made this change after reading the book No More Mr Nice Guy.
@mltplrgsm Yeah but if you date a girl who is a giver as much as you are then it sort of balances out.
Maybe. In my experience, it was just awkward and not so passionate. But whatever works for you.
In my country they don't like that, they would think the girl is weird and many wouldn't want to bother being the first to a girl because it's too much work for them.
What is your country?
Girl, guys will be lined up for that. Never sell yourself short.
Honestly it would scare away most guys. People like to think they are more understanding people than they actually are in polls like this.
I would still have sex with her, but I would worry that she didn't really know what she wanted, so a relationship might be a bit unlikely to work out. I don't know.
No, it wouldn't scare me away but I'd really doubt if she was being honest because most girls lose their virginity by age 17 or 18. If she performed oral sex or other sex acts with a guy, then she's not really a virgin. I only want to marry a virgin.
If you lose virginity with the wrong person, you'll regret it your whole life.
It won't scared me away, but I'll know that she won't have sex with just anybody.
What logical reason would I have for having negative feelings or for being scared if a woman hasn't started being sexually active yet?
if it's by choice, then yes. it probably means you're crazyif you just haven't managed to find a guy.. then also yes, you're probably very ugly or very annoying
Lol... what if i'm not the right guy? I don't get any either? Fuck that time waste.
No, it wouldn’t for me. i would think she was careful with who she likes.
It's a red flag for sure... you don't wanna let this go on, unless it is a religious thing. That's different
Yeah man, you should go as a 25yo virgin girl for Halloween.
A true Men respect a women who saves her virginity for a right guy at a right time.
Yes i would not really like to spoil a vergion she can better go into serious relationship
Virgin shaming only applies to men
That's a big bonus.
Not in my country
Not at all
No why would it.
Nah, it;s fine.
why would it
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